I am a Korean American who has served in the military for over 20 years.  My parents were neglectful and abusive and I have been questioning the things they have taught me.  After some self examination and exploration I have become comfortable in my own skin and have been a adoptee advocate for the past few years.  I am happily married with 2 wonderful children…living the American dream.  Yet, with all that I have seen in this world, I am not niave about what happens around me and I do my best to make a positive impact by supporting various NGO’s and being active in the communities that I reside.